I'm Just Spazzing.

if your going to feel sad for yourself about how much pain you're in then stop right there and SHUT UP for a moment.....

-if u didn’t break the relationship off then stop crying
-if u did break it off because of a reason like someone died or because your parents wouldn’t let u or because they weren’t treating u right then stop crying
-if u both had your differences then stop arguing! its good to be different u don’t always have to be the same
-if u both agree on the same stuff but it still didn’t work out then next time try looking for someone DIFFRENT!
-if u got mad because it didn’t work out like how u wanted it to then shut the f**k up because this isn’t your relationship...it's BOTH of you guys relationship
-if u got mad or sad because sometimes it feels like the other one isn’t treating u right then get over it because you're just hurting yourself...their not going to care if u cry
-if u cheated on the other one n regretted...to tell the truth...u really don’t regret it u just regret losing the good one
-if u beat the f**k out of the other partner then that pretty much means that u don’t give a f**k about how they f**ken feel...so don’t lie
-if u got beat up by your partner then that doesn’t mean they love....they don’t even care enough to not lay their hands on you
-if u get pissed off over the smallest little sh*t then u better make sure u know what you’re getting mad over because life's too short to take all of your time on that sh*t
-if you’re always happy because of the person you’re with and only they make u happy...then u need to get a life...if u already have one then u need to get a better one
-if u walk away from your partner n then wonder y they aren’t coming after you then that pretty much means that u do it too f**ken much n their tired of chasing after you...so stop walking away n just talk
-if u were never satisfied with who u were with then don’t push yourself to love them because if u don’t then you’re never going to love them....NO! its never going to happen
-if u have been wit a person for more them a year n the ending wasn’t mutual then u just got f**ked over half the time
-if u lie all the time in ur relationship then no matter what u say later n it was the truth...karma's going to hit u back so don’t lie
-if u got into a relationship to just f**k then f**k n leave...damns!
-if u got into a relationship n the other person said that they fell in love wit u but they only meant to just use u n leave but they fell in love...well then pretty much their lying because their still taking advantage of you
-if you’re always sad because of the last relationship didn’t work out right n it was your fault...well think about it because it wasn’t exactly your fault...because they left you so they weren’t approving of you..unless u just kept on f**king it up then you’re dumb for crying right now
-if u f**ked up the last relationship then don’t try to get into another one thinking that u have learned from your mistakes because People like to mourn in their pains of what has been lost.
Numerous of excuses you've come up with that people have used are simply something that might perhaps comfort them. I suppose people are caught in the moment to not see ahead and beyond what is there.

People are blinded by love or whatever else and never seem to open their eyes to the obvious.